i was going through a journal of things i’d written last year and found this little gem.

Speak in a language she understands.
Talk to her with touches;
it feeds her need.
Talk to her with caresses;
it soothes her soul.
Talk to her with kisses;
it calms her worries.
Talk to her without words;
it’s how she knows she’s loved.
Talk to her with the soft murmur of your fingertips on her skin.
Talk to her with the press of your lips.
This is her language. This is how You love her.