Know T/thyself

Screenshot_20181113-155553.pngWho am i? Where do i fit? What is my role? Questions many of U/us ask as W/we journey through life, whether it be vanilla or kinky. The answer isn’t always an easy one. There are so many labels that W/we apply to O/ourselves. So many places W/we do or don’t fit. So many roles W/we can fit into. The choices, quite frankly, can be staggering thanks to the limitless variations out there.

Quite often O/others try to define U/us, to pigeon hole U/us into one role, one type of person. In reality, none of us fit into just one role, one type. W/we are unique creatures. There is no one box that can contain U/us. Not really.

i’ve been many things in my forty-three yeas on this planet. daughter, sister, wife, mother, friend, girlfriend, and a number of other things. Many hats have adorned my little head. Among all of these, one remains the same… i’m ME.

Things i will never, ever be? Fake. Untrue. Disloyal. Dominant.

So… who am i then? i’m D. i’m Biteylocks. i’m a ray of motherfucking sunshine. i’m sweet, kind, loving, loyal and trustworthy. i’m a Unicornasaurus Rex, a sexy as fuck mermaid, and a fluffy little bunny. i’m a lover of books, cheesecake, bacon and coffee (the sweet, sweet nectar of the gods). i’m the best thing to ever happen to Y/you and the worst thing Y/you’ll ever lose.

i am, with 100% certainty, a slave-masochist-submissive-babygirl. How do i know this for certain? Because i’ve done the work. Years, months, weeks, days and many, many hours spent exploring, reflecting and pushing myself.

2e872-fb_img_1513444092554Will this change? Maybe. Probably not. Deep down, at the very core of who i am, that’s what describes ME best. At some point, i may be more submissive than slave, or more babygirl than masochist. But… i will always be me. No matter what. Which is awesome because, i love the person i am, and will continue to become. She’s pretty damn amazing.

The take away? Don’t let Y/yourself be pigeonholed. Be Y/you, in all of Y/your fabulous, freaky glory… and fuck the rest.



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