Who am i? Where do i fit? What is my role? Questions many of U/us ask as W/we journey through life, whether it be vanilla or kinky. The answer isn’t always an easy one. There are so many labels that W/we apply to O/ourselves. So many places W/we do or don’t fit. So many roles … Continue reading Know T/thyself
Turn the lights down low Love me in the gentle glow Make me forget everything i know Everything... but You.
Dating is a bitch. Be it vanilla or kinky, the days of going out to a club and meeting someone are not what they used to be. Add in the advent of a plethora of dating apps available to all and sunder, and the old methods just seem… hard. Like it’s too much work to … Continue reading Red Flags
Protocol is the highest form of service there is... - Lady MarketteToday we’re going to talk about rituals and protocols. There is no universal set of rituals and/or protocols. Why? Because every power exchange dynamic is different. Because the needs and wants within every relationship varies greatly from one to the next. That said, there … Continue reading Protocols
A beautiful butterfly,Wings of ruby red and silver filigree.she fought against the bitter wind.she fought against the cold.she laid her head upon the grass crisp green grassand quietly she let go.
A lovely friend of mine shared this poem with me some time ago, and i thought it worth sharing. The discussion, at the time, surrounded love and the necessity for friendship as one of the pillars for building a strong relationship. UPON THE SAND All love that has not friendship for its base, Is like a mansion built … Continue reading Upon The Sand
Originally posted on Fetlife in 2017See that pretty little girl? The one who ticks all Your boxes? The one You think could fill the void, be that someone to give You what You're missing?Don't do it. Leave her alone.she deserves to be Your choice. Not Your option because the one who is Your choice won't … Continue reading Don’t